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How My Favourite Lazy Yoga Pose Can Boost Your Productivity

… And you don’t have to turn your legs into a pretzel!

I recently did an interview for Sanebox.com as part of their Productivity Giant series and in it I talked about how my favourite lazy yoga pose is a brilliant way to press ‘reset’ if you’re drowning in distractions and overwhelm is your new best friend. Here’s why it helps you and step by step how to make it work for you:

I’d love to hear how you get on with this!

I’m curious:

How do you handle distractions and overwhelm?
Do you ever find yourself procrastinating, in order to avoid the inspired actions that might feel secretly scary?
How does using makarasana – the crocodile pose – help you to feel calmer and more resourceful?

Let me know, via the comments!

Want More?

And if you’d like more help with this, make sure you join my 5-day challenge on How To Ditch Overwhelm. Plus there are loads of how-to strategies in Dare to Dream Bigger that can really help.

x Clare

Clare Josa, Mentor to Passionate World Changers

Why I’m Leaving Facebook (Kinda!) And Why That’s GREAT NEWS If You Run A Business

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Do you ever make decisions that surprise you? That feel scary but right?

Sometimes when I take a step back from my business and do some visioning, it surprises me what comes through. And the deep dive work I did last week brought me a big surprise: I’m moving most of my business stuff off Facebook. There are so many reasons, but the big ones are in this video – and I’d love to know whether they resonate with you:

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Find out more here: https://www.clarejosa.com/leavingfacebook/
To be honest, it wasn’t a huge surprise, after my seven week social media detox over the summer (here’s a video about the five surprising lessons that taught me – they might help you, too). But it feels like a big leap.

The video is part of my recent training on Why Goal-Setting Stinks – all about how traditional goal-setting can be the one thing that keeps us stuck, dreaming big but playing small. Attendees found it really useful and are feeling much more relaxed and inspired about 2018. I’d love that for you, too, so you can still watch it (or watch it again if you’ve already seen it!) here (until 5pm today):

https://www.clarejosa.com/2018-goals-replay/

And with that I’m wrapping up for the holidays. I hope you get time to take some time out, too.

I wish you and your family a very happy Christmas (if you celebrate it) and look forward to hanging out with you in 2018. I can’t wait to hear what you’re going to create!

With love and gratitude,

Clare x

Clare Josa, Author | Mentor | World-Changer

P.S. You still have until 5pm UK time to catch my training on Why Goal-Setting Stinks and What Your Business Wishes You Were Doing Instead. It could be transformational for you in 2018. Here’s where to watch it now: https://www.clarejosa.com/2018-goals-replay/

Proof That Passionate World-Changer CAN Achieve The Impossible: Outcome Of EU Vote On EUVAT Thresholds

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Three years ago this week a small group of businesswomen met for the first time, having only previously chatted on social media. They were surrounded by some of the most senior people in the UK’s Treasury and HMRC and a government minister, who told them nothing could be done about the EU VAT law change that had accidentally closed down thousands of micro businesses.

Those women gave them hell over a change to EU VAT laws that all 28 Member State governments had voted in, which risked putting millions of microbusinesses out of business – or forcing them to trade illegally.

The law was a good idea – to make you pay VAT on digital stuff (think eBooks / MP3s / software downloads) based on where the CUSTOMER was, not the selling business. It was intended to stop the likes of Apple and Amazon avoiding tax by locating in low-VAT countries.

BUT We Needed EU VAT Thresholds

The sledgehammer that cracked the nut didn’t realise that most online businesses:

Are tiny, compared to Amazon, so don’t have an international tax team
Automatically sell internationally, because that’s how the internet works
Don’t have access to the data to prove where our customers are in the way the laws required, so we could’t comply with the new rules

Over the following two years, the volunteers who supported the EU VAT Action Campaign:

proved the disastrous unintended consequences of these laws with a 2000-business quantitative study
met with the UK government, including the UK Prime Minister and the most senior policy advisers at Downing Street
evidenced the need for EU VAT thresholds and proved to the finance ministries that they wouldn’t lose out by agreeing to them
got consultative status with the UK’s HMRC, HM Treasury and the European Commission, so we could represent the thousands of businesses who desperately needed their help
represented those businesses at the 2015 Fiscalis event, with representatives of all 28 Member States’ Finance Ministries – which was pivotal in proving the need for thresholds and convincing Finance Ministers to consider them
raised the profile of the problem with savvy social media campaigns, including a Twitter storm that got #EUVAT trending
got thousands of micro businesses taking positive action – writing to their MEPs, visiting their MPs, getting the word out there to create an unignorable case for the need for change
giving keynote speeches at the European Parliament, to motivate MEPs, the European Commission and business organisations to take action

I am honoured to have been a co-founder of that group, to have given those keynotes and to have spoken at the Fiscalis event. I am immensely grateful to the thousands of businesses who supported us over the past three years.

On 1st December last year, Pierre Moscovici announced proposals for EU VAT thresholds. This was a HUGE achievement from EVERYONE , but the proposals had to spend a year going through Tax Committee meetings, being debated and looked at from every angle. They could have been derailed at any point. Ironically, the work we did meant that there was no way to rush these changes through. The EU Commission took the impact assessment very seriously.

Over the summer, 26 of the 28 Member States had agreed to a €10k EU VAT threshold (for non-domestic digital B2C sales), below which domestic VAT rules would apply, and €100k EU VAT threshold below which simplifications to the rules would apply, allowing growing businesses to keep trading. We continued to work with the EU Commission and key Member States to help address the remaining objections.

And today was the Big Day – ECOFIN – the meeting of all 28 Finance Ministers – had to vote on the legislative changes. Here is what happened:

The new EU VAT thresholds won’t come into effect until 1st January 2019, so we are urging micro business owners to write to their tax authority and Finance Minister to ask what can be done to help them keep trading until they legally become exempt from these rules.

Thank you so much to everyone who helped us with this campaign. Over and over we have been told that the reason it succeeded is because it was positive, evidence-based and proactive, rather than looking to blame or sling mud. We couldn’t have done it without your support.

If you’re covering this news and want to interview me for comments, you can reach me here.

And if you’ve got questions, we’re continuing the discussion in our Facebook group: EU VAT Action Campaign Group.

Thank you!

P.S. Know anyone who was stressed about these rules? Are you part of any small business groups? Please share this update with them!

How To Do Something You Thought Was Impossible

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Have you got a secret dream that has spent too long on the back-burner?This has been a big week for me. I’ve done something I never thought I would ever, ever, ever do.

I published my first novel.

For 30 years I believed I couldn’t write a story, all because of a throw-away comment from a stressed-out teacher. For 13 years of motherhood, I had never told my children a ‘made up’ story, because of this. Despite publishing five non-fiction books, I didn’t consider myself an ‘author’, because I hadn’t published a novel.

I know it sounds crazy, but that’s what happens when a sticky belief gets in the way.

Have you had that experience? Where you resist doing something that’s really important to you, maybe even saying ‘no’ when your heart is screaming ‘yes’, because there’s a bit of you inside that is scared, that believes you can’t do it, even if your logical brain knows you can?

I regularly see articles from coaches and psychologists telling us just to ‘think different thoughts’ or ‘change those beliefs’ or ‘use your logic’ and all will be well. But have you noticed that they don’t tell you ‘how’? That’s because you can’t think your way out of a negative, limiting belief. As Einstein said:

You can’t solve a problem with the same level of thinking that created it.

And here’s the thing: after 17+ years of mentoring passionate world-changers, I have seen time and again that their previous efforts to deal with their blocks by pretending they’re not there, or trying to flip a belief from ‘I can’t’ to ‘I can’, just makes things worse. See page 146 of Dare To Dream Bigger (search: Why ‘Can’ Is Not The Opposite Of ‘Can’t’ , if you’ve got the Kindle version) for how-to on turning this one around.

It sets up a cycle of inner conflict that means we’re rejecting part of ourselves. We’re pretending. We’re white-washing. And it triggers the ‘backfire effect’, where the tiny bit of you that really, really believes that crazy limiting belief digs its heels in and defends that belief to the end. It gets hard-wired into your neurology (the Reticular Activating System and your synapses), so you’ll spot even more reasons why that belief is correct and your behaviour will reflect that inner truth.

You can’t just flip that around. It’s one of the reasons why positive thinking often doesn’t work.

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It’s why I don’t teach that kind of ‘sticky plaster’ in the work I do, as you’ll know if you’ve read Dare To Dream Bigger!

So how did I get stuck for thirty years, not doing something I was hungry to do, because of that “I can’t write stories” belief?

Because I distracted myself with being too busy with everything else to admit that belief even existed. I followed other projects and pretended I was ok with not doing something I had wanted to do since I was six. I grew up writing stories every summer and single-handedly keeping our local library in business. For 29 1/2 years, pretending I was ok with not writing stories worked – kinda. Until the day came when the quiet voice inside of me started to turn into a lion’s roar, waking me up at 3am, telling me I needed to write novels.

I was so scared!

I had to finally deal with that limiting belief, with those fear-stories and self-doubts. And to make that happen, I did something I have never done before.

It got me clearing out that limiting belief – and all the decades of behaviours and supporting beliefs that had been its virtual cheerleaders. And it worked so well that I was able to publish You Take Yourself With You this week, without feeling scared. To give you a comparison, as I recently told Tim Lewis in his Begin Self-Publishing podcast, Imposter Syndrome was shouting so loudly last year that the night before Dare To Dream Bigger was due at the printer, I deleted the manuscript!

I didn’t have any of that kind of inner drama this time. And, despite the huge stretch for me as a writer, I and my family never doubted that You Take Yourself With You would get published.

I would LOVE you to have that kind of certainty about your dreams.

Do you have a secret dream that has been on the back-burner for far too long? Is there something you wish you could do or create that you have been putting off?

Could 2018 be your year?

I want to teach you HOW I cleared out that block, so you can do it for your dreams, too.

I’d like to invite you to the virtual launch party for You Take Yourself With You.

On December 14th – at a computer of your choice – I’m going to be spilling the beans on how I cleared out a 30-year-old belief that I couldn’t write a story, so that I:

drafted seven novels in the next two days
wrote two of them over the summer
published the first this week – just 4 1/2 months later physical copies are in bookstores and online!

I want to share with you the exact, step by step how-to I used to shift that sticky block, so you can do it with whatever your dreams are, too.

I’m also going to give you my visualisation process for fast-tracking your way towards that dream.

Hint: this process even works if you’re like me and don’t think in pictures – and just nod politely when someone tells you to visualise!

Q: Which dream would you LOVE to make come true in 2018?

How would it feel to be able to clear out the blocks that have kept you from taking massive action on that dream? Here’s how to join me for this life-changing event:

https://www.clarejosa.com/reach-dreams-2018/

I can’t wait to share it with you!

With love,

Clare Josa, Author | Business Mentor | Life-Changer

Entrepreneurs: How To Sell Without Being Sleazy – Matthew Kimberley Via The #Youpreneursummit 2017

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Do you love whatever you create in your business, but hate selling it? Then Matthew Kimberley’s advice from Chris Ducker’s #youpreneursummit is not to be missed. If you have ever struggled with getting the sales you know your business deserves, this video is for you.

Once you’ve watched the video, I’d love to hear from you via the comments:

What’s your relationship with ‘selling’ in your business? Love it? Hate it? Somewhere in between?
What do you hate / dislike about selling? Hint: I don’t like selling, because… Give me at least five answers!
Which of Matthew’s strategies could make a difference for you, right now?
What small step could you take, in the next 24 hours, to improve the sales process in your business?

We’re continuing the discussion over at the Dare To Dream Bigger Facebook group. If you’re not a member yet, you’ll need to click the ‘join group’ button.

Key links:

Matthew Kimberley’s website: www.matthewkimberley.com
Come and join me in the private Facebook group I mentioned: Dare To Dream Bigger
If you have my book – Dare To Dream Bigger – you’ll find practical strategies to help with some of the points Matthew mentioned: Step 3 – Credibility – how to become the genuine go-to person in your niche.
Step 1 – Dream Audience – the power of choosing a niche. Got the Kindle version? Search on those phrases to go straight to those sections.
Step 4 page 222 – How To Stand In Your Audience’s Shoes.
Step 2 – Confidence – standing in your personal power, so you don’t get in the way of your sales.
There are also loads of extra videos / worksheets / audios waiting for you in the Readers’ Club on these topics.

I hope this all helps! Let me know how you get on.

With love and gratitude,

Author of Dare To Dream Bigger, Mentor To Passionate World-Changers

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