“All criticism is borne of someone else’s pain.” Native American Indian saying Sometimes people do stuff that’s really unacceptable. Yes, there’s a sliding scale so ‘unacceptable’, but it’s still not ok. It’s our tendency to retaliate in some way – perhaps by behaving unkindly or even doing something nasty to them. It’s easy to hold […]
Does It Pass The Woolly Jumper Test?
“If someone gives you feedback, try it on for size, before you believe it.” Most of us have a tendency to be rather free and generous with our opinions – even when it comes to giving feedback to others about their performance, behaviour, beliefs, values or lifestyle. When we’re on the receiving end of that […]